It seems a slight change to my profile is in order. For those who only look at photos and read the 1st line of a profile - I am looking for friends and lovers who 1) Don't use tobacco products of any kind and are D/D free, 2) Practice safe sex/use condoms 3) Understand and respect my need for discretion, and 4) Possess a keen intellect and can make interesting and witty conversation and who are creative and imaginative romantically. For me this is much more important than the size of your - bank account, biceps, boat, Harley, etc. LOL! I am not particularly interested in explicit photos of your anatomy, at least not as an introduction. I find the intrigue and impact of the unveiling to be more appealing in person. I prefer men who enjoy long conversations both in and out of bed and who are comfortable expressing emotions with depth beyond simple lust. If this endeavor for you is akin to finding a bowling partner I will probably be a bit too much of an investment. I am a warm, generous, and emotionally mature individual and have only added this in an attempt to save you time and effort if what you seek is something other than what I have to offer. There is certainly no judgment implied. Happy Hunting If you are still reading...